I have read it is better to get out of bed until you feel tired, and then go back. I can have a hard time dropping off and the last thing I want is to lie in bed for hours.
So I got up, I looked at bean seasonings on Amazon. Badia and Bolner's Fiesta both have good looking ones. I may buy some later on I wish listed them on my list, not the gift list. I also ran the dryer while the house is cool.
I went back to bed. I slept OK, slept in and got up at 9. The cats were quite upset, they are used to breakfast between 4-7 AM.
I should have fed them in the middle of the night and I will do that next time.
I got up, took a shower, a lot of helping Ron. He was OK at first but lacks understanding on pain management.
He will come to me (I feel fine making this public, BTW, and thought before I began writing), I am in pain. So I will give him various OTC remedies including hemp oil, essential oil roll on, magnets, Kratom, Advil. He took his prescription.
5 minutes later he is demanding I give him vodka - where he got this belief I am his bartender I have no idea - I told him, ever so kindly, "Get it yourself".
He then told me the stuff I had given him "wasn't working" - it had been 5 minutes. And then stated that vodka was a "sure fix as it always did the job". No, what I gave him does the job. The vodka just keeps him entertained until it kicks in.
I will have the pain doctor discuss this with him; that it takes a while for pain meds to work.
He got pretty ugly so I walked out of the house and sat in the chair out front.
He says I don't understand chronic pain. He had a migraine once and he was weeping with it, and this was well before the accident, begging me to give him something to make it stop. Then realized I dealt with that level of pain several times a month (back then). He was very understanding for a while. I get chronic pain I have plenty. I don't make a production out of it and demand everyone in my circle come and tend me.
I wrote somewhere else I imagine Ron would do a lot more for himself if I were not in the picture. He has gotten spoiled.
#6 is unloading an awning, folding tables and chairs, he had a graduation sign for his oldest out front for a few months now. I guess they are having the party tonight. I will endeavor to be understanding, not call the police. I am encouraged he has the awning as that seems to indicate they are having an earlier party? We will see. They have been OK recently
I didn't see any cats when I was out but it is in the upper 80's already.
I have, for now, decided to keep the blog public as I think it is OK. I can always make changes anytime I need to.
I am not hungry but I probably need to eat. I tend to only be hungry in the evening so I may just wait until then. I don't think it will hurt me.
If I get a headache I will point the finger at stress.
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