He feels I am "undressing" Ron online by sharing his bad behavior. He told Ron I was relating this and Ron got upset. As I told them, everything I have written about Ron and his behavior, has been 100% true.
"You don't want me to tell the truth?" I asked.
[shrug] I'm still working on it, but a Christian Counselor friend of mine was pretty outraged. I have a lot of online friends.
Someone said "Heather, your honesty in sharing your struggles has encouraged me to share mine". Then I got an in-box on a message board "Heather, I really want to share what you related about forgiveness with a friend, can I do that?" Of course.
It certainly seems like God is telling me not to shut up.
Like I told her, I would hope my pain can help others. Maybe inspire them. Maybe encourage them. Maybe make them think "Well, at least my life isn't that…