Now the siblings

 I have an assortment of siblings so I will cover them.  I consider them all "mine" even though of all these people I don't have a full blood sibling.  

Cole: Not his birth name but he prefers it. The oldest (68 now).  He was very rebellious as a child but says his "Law and Order" career was his favorite.  He has a son and a daughter.  Half brother 

S: goes by her birth name.  16 years older than me. In a cult so we don't talk much.  Has said her fondest dream is for me to join the cult which gives me nausea.  Tried to break up my marriage so I would go be her live in caregiver.  NO thank you. Divorced, has a son and two daughters. 

Cindy: stepsister. 5 years older than me. Was very patient with me as a child.  I think Dad wanted us to share a room (only 3 bedrooms and 4 kids) but I was a brat. Has a son, is married (second marriage). Likes to dress her cat in little outfits and the cat lets her. Takes care of feral cat Ms. Kitty and named the kitten Chester before checking gender, so Chester wears her dresses with pride. 😂  Moving to Florida pretty soon.  

Bill: Stepbrother. 2 years older than me. Married since the 90's his wife is a teacher.  They try to travel a lot which is a good plan when you are young and healthy. Two sons one is a fireman. 

M: younger stepbrother.  We had a lot of issues when I lived at home. To be honest I avoided him at the family reunion. He has a son. 

Cindy and Bill "borrowed" Ron in his wheelchair one night at the family reunion cruise in 2009.  They brought him back very drunk and kept raving to me how awesome he was and what a good choice I made marrying him. Even M. liked him which is impressive as he once referred to him with a racist slur.