Coming to terms with losing my husband and sharing my faith. "A Bible that's falling apart belongs to someone who isn't"
Thursday, January 3, 2019
Here he goes again
With the whole "Get saved so I don't have to be blind" thing. It doesn't work that way.
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Why not? You think god helps you fix change machines so why won't he give Ron his eyesight back or fix his pain? Because in reality you are the one fixing the change machine and not god.
Is he intending to embarrass me? I don't think so. He is so consumed with what is going on in his own head he doesn't stop to think about me. I am incidental. But if I have a migraine he can be quiet and take care of himself for days.
According to what Ron has told me he read the whole Bible, once, cover to cover "I remember it all so I don't need to read it again". He has several audio Bibles and a braille New Testament.
I try to read the whole Bible every year. I don't know about other people but I like to keep it all fresh in my head. I miss days, I haven't read it in weeks, but I want to read it every day and read it through every year.
I try to remember he has 3 kinds of brain damage. It is also apparent to me the pain meds affect his thinking so maybe that is a part of it. But I will keep "steering" him when this comes up.
In the meantime the drivers are used to all sorts of bizarre behavior (masturbating, head banging, grabbing other clients and the driver, etc.) so Ron sort of fits right in.
Now you are the one who is delusional again. Come on you know this isn’t true; “. But if I have a migraine he can be quiet and take care of himself for days. ”. If by “taking care of himself” you mean passing out in his wheelchair, falling out of it and then slithering around the house in his own vomit and tomato sauce is taking care of himself, then I guess you’re right.
But he has never had a blackout when I had a migraine. Never. He moderates himself at least that much.
When I am sick I am happy if he can feed and toilet himself. Anything above that is a bonus. I can generally take care of myself, and the cats, but not him.
But I should have a lot fewer migraines this year because I have cut out pretty much all the food triggers, and mine tend to be very food related.
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Why not? You think god helps you fix change machines so why won't he give Ron his eyesight back or fix his pain? Because in reality you are the one fixing the change machine and not god.
I would have told him to go F-Off.
Has he ever read the bible?
Is Ron doing that in order to embarrass you or something? I'm not sure what is going on with him? -star_tigress
Is he intending to embarrass me? I don't think so. He is so consumed with what is going on in his own head he doesn't stop to think about me. I am incidental. But if I have a migraine he can be quiet and take care of himself for days.
According to what Ron has told me he read the whole Bible, once, cover to cover "I remember it all so I don't need to read it again". He has several audio Bibles and a braille New Testament.
I try to read the whole Bible every year. I don't know about other people but I like to keep it all fresh in my head. I miss days, I haven't read it in weeks, but I want to read it every day and read it through every year.
I try to remember he has 3 kinds of brain damage. It is also apparent to me the pain meds affect his thinking so maybe that is a part of it. But I will keep "steering" him when this comes up.
In the meantime the drivers are used to all sorts of bizarre behavior (masturbating, head banging, grabbing other clients and the driver, etc.) so Ron sort of fits right in.
Now you are the one who is delusional again. Come on you know this isn’t true; “. But if I have a migraine he can be quiet and take care of himself for days. ”. If by “taking care of himself” you mean passing out in his wheelchair, falling out of it and then slithering around the house in his own vomit and tomato sauce is taking care of himself, then I guess you’re right.
Tomato juice, technically.
But he has never had a blackout when I had a migraine. Never. He moderates himself at least that much.
When I am sick I am happy if he can feed and toilet himself. Anything above that is a bonus. I can generally take care of myself, and the cats, but not him.
But I should have a lot fewer migraines this year because I have cut out pretty much all the food triggers, and mine tend to be very food related.
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