I am battling a vicious depression, hiding in the house, waiting for Ron to finish some accounting work before we file the report. I can sit here and brood, or I can focus on happier things.
Did you know, brown-eyed cats used to creep me out? They just gave me the chills. I liked yellow eyes, green eyes, and blue eyes, but the brown eyed cats made me shudder.
Until, of course, Ron presented me with a screaming tabby fur ball with brown eyes. The poor little thing was terrified and starving, not scary at all.
As you know, I was very resistant. I didn't want more litter duty. I didn't want a little pest attacking me at night. I felt I didn't have the patience or the energy level to deal with a kitten. I didn't want her bothering Bubba.
I told Ron, I had 3 rules: She had to let me sleep. She had to use the box. She had to be nice to Bubba.
We're still working on #3. Bubba finds her existence annoying, but I don't hear a lot of unhappy language. His body language seems OK and he greets her. They basically smell each other's noses. I find that positive. He doesn't hate her, and she is trying out various boundaries. Bubba's old, but he can still smack her if needed.
Ron does a good job of helping her play, so it's not just my job. She is slowing down a little, not as manic, so I'm hopeful she will become a sweet, normal, adult cat.
I'm just not a big fan of kittens. I know a lot of people are just the opposite, they love kittens, but don't care as much about adult cats.
I love to sleep with a well behaved cat. Bubba will, on occasion, stretch out on my right side, at the edge of the bed, and sleep with me. I love it. He never stays for long, but it means a lot.
Last night, I was awakened by a small meow and the sound of something climbing my bed. I said Hello, petted Baby Girl, and patted the "good spot" on my bed.
I tend to toss and turn, so a cat needs to sleep at a higher position. Otherwise I'll roll over and mash it. I had a horrible squeak last month.
To my surprise, she settled right down, purring, and as far as I can tell, spent the entire night in my bed. It was great. I'd roll over, feel her position so I wouldn't mash her, and pet her briefly. She'd start the purr motor and stretch, then we'd both go back to sleep.
My little brown eyed girl is a real sweetheart.
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