Coming to terms with losing my husband and sharing my faith. "A Bible that's falling apart belongs to someone who isn't"
Friday, December 14, 2018
You'd think he'd remember
I am helpinghim. A lot of shouting at me.
I am the only one helping him. Remember that.
6 comments:
Anonymous
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How come Ron has no trouble lifting a bottle to his mouth to drink but is unable to feed himself in public? Seems like a visit from Anne Sullivan (Helen Keller's teacher in case you didn't know)is in order for Ron.
Of course there will be yelling from Ronny Boy. He waited until the last minute to get this done. Refused to have a copy of this program on your computer as a backup and now the pressure is on. What a complete a-hole. I bet you could finish it faster without him breathing down your neck.
At what point have you had enough? When do you stand up for yourself?
Verbal abuse, him attacking you, physical abuse. Affairs.
He refuses to get help or work on his back or do rehab or exercise or even clean himself.
Why would he be nice to you? He’s shown he can be as horrible as possible and you stay with him.
When do you leave? It’s not too late to start over Heather. Jesus doesn’t teach us to torture ourselves. Loving our enemies doesn’t mean let them destroy us willingly.
Regarding the eating, he can't cut his food. He can pick up the whole piece of meat with one hand and chew, but doesn't like to do that in public.
Regarding the rest, he is so deep in self pity, blame, and denial he is used to it. Everything is God's fault, even if Ron had a direct hand in whatever catastrophe is unfolding.
Like waiting to do the report until the last minute, consistently, every month. Computer goes down and we are late, and penalized. But he blames God and is absolutely livid that I refuse to blame God for any of this. He almost reminds me of an atheist, in it. Just a passionate hatred of my faith.
It's called religious abuse and he does that in addition to the rest.
I’m a Christian too and I 1000% don’t believe God would want this for you. he DID NOT MEAN that “loving your enemies” equates to staying with an emotionally or physically abusive spouse. I thjnk you know that too.
6 comments:
How come Ron has no trouble lifting a bottle to his mouth to drink but is unable to feed himself in public? Seems like a visit from Anne Sullivan (Helen Keller's teacher in case you didn't know)is in order for Ron.
Of course there will be yelling from Ronny Boy. He waited until the last minute to get this done. Refused to have a copy of this program on your computer as a backup and now the pressure is on. What a complete a-hole. I bet you could finish it faster without him breathing down your neck.
At what point have you had enough? When do you stand up for yourself?
Verbal abuse, him attacking you, physical abuse. Affairs.
He refuses to get help or work on his back or do rehab or exercise or even clean himself.
Why would he be nice to you? He’s shown he can be as horrible as possible and you stay with him.
When do you leave? It’s not too late to start over Heather. Jesus doesn’t teach us to torture ourselves. Loving our enemies doesn’t mean let them destroy us willingly.
Regarding the eating, he can't cut his food. He can pick up the whole piece of meat with one hand and chew, but doesn't like to do that in public.
Regarding the rest, he is so deep in self pity, blame, and denial he is used to it. Everything is God's fault, even if Ron had a direct hand in whatever catastrophe is unfolding.
Like waiting to do the report until the last minute, consistently, every month. Computer goes down and we are late, and penalized. But he blames God and is absolutely livid that I refuse to blame God for any of this. He almost reminds me of an atheist, in it. Just a passionate hatred of my faith.
It's called religious abuse and he does that in addition to the rest.
I’m a Christian too and I 1000% don’t believe God would want this for you. he DID NOT MEAN that “loving your enemies” equates to staying with an emotionally or physically abusive spouse. I thjnk you know that too.
At the rate Ron is going this will all be a moot question in a couple of years anyway.
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