I am seeing a lot of Pride month stuff.
At work we used to have an associate who special ordered a Walmart Pride polo that had 'PRIDE" embroidered on one sleeve and the upper chest. She was a very out of the closet lesbian. Nice enough but I was always uncomfortable.
Anyway if they do a Pride cake at work in the breakroom I will not eat it, and I love cake and donuts. Recently I was kidding around with a Latina co worker and I poked my belly fat and said "Yo tengo muchas donas!" (I have many donuts) So I won't do that just because I feel eating the cake endorses it.
Do I judge? Not really. It's more like I see them living fornication, I used to do that, got burned very badly in many ways on that. And I wish I could impute that to them so they could avoid pain because God puts up His commandments as guard rails for us not prison walls. I am much happier now living a Biblical sex life (celibacy) than I was sleeping with Ron out of marriage. That's all.
God has His rules for our safety and well being not to rule us. No one sees that though and I'm not going to say anything because work is "inclusive". But it's like watching people speeding and running red lights without a seatbelt. You want to tell them,but can't.
That's all.
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"God has His rules for our safety and well being not to rule us." Funny Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines.
And in the New Testament is says "A man should be the husband of ONE wife" (1 Timothy chapter 3).
Of course a few thousand years ago it made sense for men to have multiple wives as they often died in childbirth.
"Of course a few thousand years ago it made sense for men to have multiple wives as they often died in childbirth." Really it makes sense to you for ONE man to have 1000 wives? Get real.
If you've read the whole biography than you know the wives turned him from Jehovah to other gods (small g) and God's wrath was against him, judgement came in that his son would lose the kingdom (and did). The son, Rehobam I believe, only kept the tribe of Judah as loyal to him the rest told him to bugger off and rebelled.
David had a thing for women and it led to him having ongoing conflict "The sword will not depart from your house" as he committed adultery, murdered the woman's husband, and married her. She was the mother of Solomon. So he of all should have understood the snare of sexual sin.
Anyway Solomon did write in Proverbs "Be happy with your wife...let her breasts satisfy you always..." etc. which is ironic as he had so many women. If you use a lookedup (concordance or Bible Gateway) and type in Wife you will get some interesting reading.
Interesting documentary from Stew Peters on Rumble. Can't remember the exact title. It's from 5/30 End of Days or something like that.
Anyway it showed Steve Jobs and his Apple logo in pride colors way before God's rainbow was perverted. Interesting it sold for $666.66
https://rumble.com/v2r004k-final-days-worldwide-premiere.html
What I see of the people around me; the ones having sex out of marriage have the drama and the pain, those married do not. That is why God made the rules the way He did.
Says the woman who was marrued and whose blog was filled with drama and pain caused by her husband.
But, we started with sex out of wedlock. That planted some very bad seeds. If I had been more patient and gone through a normal courtship process with Ron I would have seen the red flags. Instead I jumped into his bed like a secular woman and reaped many decades of pain out of that.
One reason I am going to be very, very, careful if I meet someone.
You did see the red flags with Ron. Thats why you went to Houston in part to get away from him. But he followed you and you felt sorry for him and got back with him. So sex out of marriage is not the reason you were in a bad relationship. Plenty of people get married and have a spouse cheat or abuse them. Marriage guarantees nothing.
But out of marriage sex is an assured curse, in my book.
Want to "f" things up? Jump the gun.
Your marriage wasn't cursed because you had sex with Ron outside of marriage. You chose a bad guy because of your own mental illnesses and terrible home life.
You stayed with Ron because of your mental illness and your terrible childhood/home life. That is just the facts. God did nothing to protect you from yourself (and shouldn't he have since you were a sick person and could not make good choices?).
You were not capable of having a healthy relationship and that is what predators like Ron look for.
That is why you should probably not get involved with another man until you get counseling of some type and support. Otherwise you will pick the same type of man in your next relationship.
It is the same as an abused woman who finally leaves her abuser and get in another relationship with another abuser because nothing about them has changed and they attract that type like bees to honey.
Big deal sex out of marriage, grow up
Sex out of marriage is a very big deal.
There were a lot of problems in my marriage and premarital sex was one of them. The kind of guy who won't wait until marriage,I found, is also the kind of guy who cheats.
Let me guess...
Don't forget the guy that strings a stupid woman along for years with an engagement ring for a marriage that never happens.
A comment really stuck out to me today, it started out..."you need" I now see how it sounds when I talk to my daughter and BFF like that as if I know everything and they can't think for themselves.
She needs to get health insurance.
Well I'd like it but Walmart needs to give me over 34 hours a week, for 6 months.
I believe owning the house knocks me out of Medicaid.
Or I could get remarried. I am not against the idea but "for insurance" would be a terrible idea.
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