Coming to terms with losing my husband and sharing my faith. "A Bible that's falling apart belongs to someone who isn't"
Wednesday, August 15, 2018
A very difficult morning
And one I can't talk about. I can say plenty of verbal abuse. Some times I wonder what my life would be like if I hadn't met him.
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Sorry to hear about that. Next time the invalid wants help getting into the kitchen for his vodka - don't help him. I predict within 1-3 years he will be in a nursing home. Either due to an infection from his lack of hygiene or the back pain, etc becomes even more debilitating. Start making preparations now for when you will have to find another job.
I would say that it's best not to wonder "what-ifs". That would lead to bitterness and resentment. I've experienced those and wouldn't do that again. Take control of your thoughts and focus on what you can do. Sometimes it has to be done and like you've said, Ron most likely won't ever be back to the old Ron. All I can say is to pray on this then take action for yourself while supporting Ron. You are more important because you are the primary caretaker. One more thing - have you tried the strict elimination diet in regards to headaches (takes about 2-3 weeks)? -Star_Tigress
I definitely plan to get out tomorrow, that's for sure.
The only way I can "take control" right now is to put my foot down, refuse to help him at all, and move out. Which puts Ron in a nursing home and our business in the crapper.
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Sorry to hear about that. Next time the invalid wants help getting into the kitchen for his vodka - don't help him. I predict within 1-3 years he will be in a nursing home. Either due to an infection from his lack of hygiene or the back pain, etc becomes even more debilitating. Start making preparations now for when you will have to find another job.
sending you love and strength to do what is best for YOU OOOXXX
Heather people can only abuse you if you let them. Take control of your life. ((Hugs))
I would say that it's best not to wonder "what-ifs". That would lead to bitterness and resentment. I've experienced those and wouldn't do that again. Take control of your thoughts and focus on what you can do. Sometimes it has to be done and like you've said, Ron most likely won't ever be back to the old Ron. All I can say is to pray on this then take action for yourself while supporting Ron. You are more important because you are the primary caretaker. One more thing - have you tried the strict elimination diet in regards to headaches (takes about 2-3 weeks)? -Star_Tigress
I definitely plan to get out tomorrow, that's for sure.
The only way I can "take control" right now is to put my foot down, refuse to help him at all, and move out. Which puts Ron in a nursing home and our business in the crapper.
I'm not at that point.
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