Sunday, March 17, 2024

Sunday morning

 To the comment about Ron, how is a blind man supposed to verify his girlfriend's age?  I lied and told him I was 18.  He couldn't exactly look at my birth certificate or ID card.  I didn't even have an ID card at the time.  

Anyway I did not sleep well I think it is the allergy pill, as I did not use much caffeine yesterday.  I am up now and ready to go.  

I just work 1-8 and that boss should have the day off.  I packed a lunch with some favorites.  I brought an assortment of cheese.  

I decided I was not ready to figure out low carb snacks at this point so I bought one of those assorted packs of one ounce chips, and a pack of granola bars that do not have peanut flour in them.  The Nature Valley brand, and the Great Value, do, and that causes Big Time Headaches for me.  But one without any peanuts should be OK.  

I just realized I will be taking the bus I normally take to church.  That is sad.  

That's it for now, updates from work.  I'll take prayer for the recipients and for me to have an uneventful day.  

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

Ron is a pedo. He knew you were still in high school. Don't lie now and say he had no idea. He knew.

Heather Knits said...

1. Ron's dead so you are using the wrong verb tense.
2. Ron's graduation from HS was delayed due to severe back issues. He was 18 in high school almost a year if I remember.
He really didn't know and we had already done a lot so I guess he figured more wouldn't matter. I honestly didn't see the big deal. My birth mother had my brother at 13.

Anonymous said...

Your birth mother was raped at 12 and had your brother at 13 and you don't see what the big deal is? No wonder she was an alcoholic. She was raped as a child and forced to keep the baby. Did she have to marry her rapist too?

Don't make excuses for Ron. He knew. Damn straight he knew.

Heather Knits said...

She married him. My understanding it was consensual and he was only a little older. He was also an alcoholic so my brother and sister had it pretty rough. I think this goes under bipolar hypersexuality. Which is a real thing

I honestly don't think Ron knew he was scared shitless when he found out.

Anonymous said...

You know how old your mother's rapist was. Please let us know. Why lie about it?

Heather Knits said...

I honestly have no idea. He's around my Dad's age and he was only one year older than my birth mother.

Anonymous said...

Yeah I don't believe your mother was having sex with a 13 year old and got pregnant at 12 but nice try. First you said it was a few years older then you backtracked and said 1 year older.

Heather Knits said...

I don't know! I do know, based on things my brother has said, his Dad is about the same age as mine.

And basic sex education says two young teens can get pregnant.

I met the guy once he was all pissed I didn't believe he had psychic powers. He was about my Dad's age but more dissipated. I didn't like him.

Anonymous said...

Ever hear of Mary Kate LeTourneau?

Anonymous said...

It's easy to find out. Just look up their marriage license. You have your mothers name and her rapists name. Why not ask? I would and then I would call the guy a rapist to his face.

Heather Knits said...

The guy has dementia now. If I really wanted to know I would ask my brother, their oldest.

Honestly I don't care. I know my mother had a hard life made much worse by her drinking and refusal to take medication.

Anonymous said...

"Ever hear of Mary Kate LeTourneau?" Yes she was a rapist too. It doesn't matter that she married her victim. The good news is she is dead now and her victim is finally free from her manipulation.

Anonymous said...

Your mother's problems started with her rape and marrying her rapist and escalated from there. She was a child raising a child. Her parents were morons.

Heather Knits said...

Well I did a blog on this a while back.

It goes back generations. I know for sure my grandmother was placed in an orphanage along with her brother and younger sister because their parents couldn't afford them/didn't want them. My grandmother was promised an aunt would adopt her, but when the aunt came to visit she took the younger, cuter, little sister instead and my grandmother grew up an orphan.

She was a math genius and used that to make a living her whole life. I did not inherit that talent. She met and married a dashing airman, got pregnant, and watched him die at an airshow. He hadn't made her his beneficiary so she had to support the child, my mother, by herself while fighting court battles for his pension against her mother in law. It sent her over the edge and she was diagnosed schizophrenic, but she always denied the diagnosis. She tormented my mother who ran off as soon as she could.