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Wednesday, April 25, 2018
Ron yelling at me in a Denny's
Not fun.
5 comments:
Anonymous
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I find when a blind person or anyone is yelling at me in public and humiliating me the best thing to do is get up and walk away. Just leave them looking like a lunatic yelling at themselves. Same would apply when he pulls this nonsense at work. Just walk away. Why stand there and take it? Try it. You can 1. just get up and leave or 2. say I am leaving and go. Now you can return to the table, etc when he stops yelling. Yelling starts up again do the same thing. If is called cognitive behavioral therapy or getting a backbone. I bet the behavior/yelling will stop.
I will do that, next time. Honestly, though, I sat there feeling like Ron was making himself look like an asshole, if anything it made me look better that I wasn't shouting back. And he was very drunk.
Nope you need to walk away. Yes he does look like an asshole but your staying just continues the behavior. It may take a few times for him to get it but I bet he will stop doing it if you just leave (you don't have to go far just where he thinks you are gone but you are close by watching him).
5 comments:
I find when a blind person or anyone is yelling at me in public and humiliating me the best thing to do is get up and walk away. Just leave them looking like a lunatic yelling at themselves. Same would apply when he pulls this nonsense at work. Just walk away. Why stand there and take it? Try it. You can 1. just get up and leave or 2. say I am leaving and go. Now you can return to the table, etc when he stops yelling. Yelling starts up again do the same thing. If is called cognitive behavioral therapy or getting a backbone. I bet the behavior/yelling will stop.
I will do that, next time. Honestly, though, I sat there feeling like Ron was making himself look like an asshole, if anything it made me look better that I wasn't shouting back. And he was very drunk.
Nope you need to walk away. Yes he does look like an asshole but your staying just continues the behavior. It may take a few times for him to get it but I bet he will stop doing it if you just leave (you don't have to go far just where he thinks you are gone but you are close by watching him).
It would be interesting to see how he'd react. At first he'd go nuclear, I know that.
Let's try it next time and see what happens. I think the minute you left he would be quiet.
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