Saturday, March 3, 2018

Long day

Ron was up all night with back pain; says the only thing that helps is vodka - HAS to drink before we leave today.  This is happening more and more often. 

I would have more empathy for him if he would go to a pain clinic, but he refuses.  He won't even get an MRI.  He just uses "back pain" - which I do believe exists - as a crutch and justification for falling into the bottle. 

He has been VERY verbally abusive all morning.  It's going to be a long day. 

3 comments:

Spankadoo said...

Heather his decline is rapid I am so sorry! You do your best but you can not fight this alone I wish so much for peace for you. I know what you are going through, sadly . I am sending you tons of empathy, understanding and huge hugs! (Some for the kitties as well! ). We can not blame ourselves for the abuse inflicted upon us but so often we do.

Anonymous said...

Don't forget to go out to dinner with the verbally abusive jerk off later tonight. BTW if I was chuck and knew that this POS was purposefully taking my sweet time about coming to the door and getting ready when I showed up to take him somewhere to help him out I would drive off and not come back. This man acts this way because people allow him to get away with things. If there are consequences that AFFECT HIM he will cease these behaviors.

Heather Knits said...

I agree, it would do him good to get left. With paratransit, it's 5 minutes past the pickup time, then they go. He has been left (generally at work), but not recently, he's good about being ready at work. But the overall pattern of making people wait on him is *not cool*.