Coming to terms with losing my husband and sharing my faith. "A Bible that's falling apart belongs to someone who isn't"
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
Thinking about hunting up some affordable counseling. It will be a hunt! I could use some help with the boundaries and all. REALLY sick of hearing "Love you, hate the disability." I don't say that to him! Heather
4 comments:
Heidi
said...
there is no shame in asking for and getting help from a therapist ..sometimes they can say a few things that give you tools you can not find yourself
trust me I know of what I speak keep pushing forward you are an amazing woman never forget that!
GREAT idea and exactly what counseling is for. Try calling your county health department or calling your own doctor, he will almost certainly have some leads for you.
Heather I have often wondered if your depression would be lessened if you did not live with Ron.
I know it seems like a mountain dealing with all this and I am sure you feel a bit trapped as he is your form of income. This makes it difficult if not near impossible for you to leave him (all of which I understand completely).
But as you have said I do believe that God will come through for you in his timing. It may not be in the way we expect or even realize at the time but he will.
I will pray for you also that God will guide you to the path he wants you on.
4 comments:
there is no shame in asking for and getting help from a therapist ..sometimes they can say a few things that give you tools you can not find yourself
trust me I know of what I speak
keep pushing forward you are an amazing woman never forget that!
GREAT idea and exactly what counseling is for. Try calling your county health department or calling your own doctor, he will almost certainly have some leads for you.
Heather I have often wondered if your depression would be lessened if you did not live with Ron.
I know it seems like a mountain dealing with all this and I am sure you feel a bit trapped as he is your form of income. This makes it difficult if not near impossible for you to leave him (all of which I understand completely).
But as you have said I do believe that God will come through for you in his timing. It may not be in the way we expect or even realize at the time but he will.
I will pray for you also that God will guide you to the path he wants you on.
"REALLY sick of hearing "Love you, hate the disability." I don't say that to him!"
Interesting maybe you should say that to him sometime and see how it makes him feel.
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