I have a t shirt that says "NOPE not going to happen" on it, I wore it Monday and I think Buddy thought it was pointed at him, we didn't talk much and he later (at the end of the run) said he thought I didn't want to talk.
When I got back from my trip he had given me his phone number "So I could send him a photo of the famous bread loaf so he could see about buying it online". I did that, he didn't respond. I left it alone. Weeks passed.
I decided I could send him a cat photo and leave it at that, he did text me back on that and also remarked on the photo
So we talked a little about cats and a couple minutes on Biscuit's condition. Between us, and this did not come up, there is a surgery can be done but it would involve mutilating Biscuit's manhood. I have seen Biscuit licking his manhood, he is very proud of it and I would put him down before I did that. I don't believe in any kind of genital mutilation, male or female. I can see the arguments for male circumcision though, in a human. But that didn't come up and I wouldn't have discussed the cat stuff on a bus anyway. And the human stuff I would not discuss unless I knew someone very well - that hasn't even come up with my aunt and I tell her everything.
I am very proud of my aunt. She trapped cat #3 out of 4. This was the calico, obviously a female - looks more like a Tortie to me but same thing - female - so glad she is going to the clinic. The other one is orange and white so likely a male and not as big a deal since they all live outside. I gave her the trap years ago.
So I'm leaving the ball in Buddy's court. I would say right now we have a very light friendship.
I am having formatting difficulties and it's 1 am so I'm not going to fight.
I did feel bad for my 2 local bus drivers. The first one is "Done with this ghetto bus route" and the other one told me he had two write ups. Then I didn't see him yesterday it was obviously a substitute, so he may have been fired. I hope not, he was a nice guy.
He was very sweet and always asked me about my day, told me a little about his husband. He had asked for my name which I gave him, I hope he looks me up on Facebook. That's the problem with a lot of the routes, the driver disappears and I never see them again.
It will be interesting to see if Buddy bids on the route again.
Work was OK just long. My boss did say "Thank you' several times which I find important at work. My love languages are gifts (to give) and quality time, in my personal life. At work it is more words.
The grocery manager was also very sweet and concerned about my nut allergy yesterday when I zoned the breakfast cereal aisle, I am just going to wear gloves every time I zone, I think. I didn't have any issues but I could see the nuts in the granola. I think the manager actually researched nut allergies and realized, like I said, "I don't want to be lying on the floor swelling up like a pumpkin in somebody's Tik Tok".
And I'm off today which is nice. When I get up for good I plan to research the issues on the ballot, go vote, get a treat, come home, clean. Take a nap!
Tomorrow is my long day. That's it for now!
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