Ron woke up, acted like nothing had happened. I don't think he even remembered the night before. He acted like "we" were going to dinner so I didn't get into it with him.
I took a nap, had a pretty good one, and got up around 2:30. Around 3:10, I asked Ron when Chuck was coming. Ron said 3:45. Ron let me know he had an alarm set so he'd have time to get ready.
Baby Girl had some more mats. I managed to clean those up for her, I was able to pretty much just pull them out without hurting her. She looked a lot better when I finished.
I was ready when Chuck pulled up, Ron wasn't. I took out 3 empty vodka bottles and brought in the garbage can. Ron was ready by then.
I took the bag off the back of the wheelchair and left the umbrella at home. I loaded Ron into the truck (a Ford F-150) and put the wheelchair in the truck bed.
Off we went. We had some traffic because school had just gotten out. We arrived at the restaurant. They always have a nice flock of pigeons outside, I like pigeons.
I pushed Ron inside while Chuck parked and then we waited for Chuck to come into the building. He did and we were seated.
We had a pretty uneventful dinner. I cried a little when they played the song "She's in love with the boy". It is very sad to me, now.
I mentioned that we needed to get Torbie on "Intervention" for her treat addiction, and Chuck replied "No, we need to get RON signed up!"
"I did" I replied "They were very interested but my aunt and uncle wouldn't go on camera." I also think the program wanted me working on my own, living away from Ron, or at least able to do that quickly. Since I couldn't do that they turned us down.
I didn't get into all of that but Chuck was quiet for a while (don't forget Chuck is normally the one who buys Ron his vodka, Ron pays him to do it plus a little extra). We ate our steaks, they were good.
Ron got fried onion on top of his. No thanks. I had already eaten some peanut butter and taken my pills, hours ago, so I didn't have to worry about getting sick.
For whatever reason, lithium + friends don't like steak, I always get horribly sick. I had a salad, and a baked sweet potato with butter, in addition to my steak. It (the steak) was kind of a funny shape, almost like the State of Texas. I felt a little odd eating "Texas". But it was good. I always get my steak medium. My Dad and his Mom always liked their steak well done, almost burnt. I prefer a more tender and juicy steak.
We finished our meals. Ron put most of his food in a takeout container. I got dessert, a brownie thing with a large scoop of ice cream. I ate most of the brownie and about half the ice cream.
The way I saw it, it was my 25th anniversary dinner; and my birthday dinner as well. So I justified a cheat.
After we finished we went home. Ron got into the leftovers. I fed the cats. Biscuit was upset because I was "late". I gave him a little extra to apologize ([whispering] Don't tell the vet).
Ron went to bed. Baby Girl wanted to go out in the garage. I don't mind letting her out if we're not about to leave. It is an interesting place, full of unusual smells and experiences. Let her have some fun. I don't know what our living situation will be like in a few months so she might as well enjoy the whole house while we can.
I will let her in later.
I'm going to bed now so I will talk to you tomorrow. Have a good one.
1 comment:
You are a very strong woman and nothing you could have ever done would have changed the course of his behavior
Happy anniversary !
So you did you...cheers here's to you celebrate your mental and physical health and the fact you know and do stay on top of things....glad you had a good night out.
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