I don't feel my job is secure

 My boss is very much an "X" manager (you can read up on it), threatening a lot, never happy.  It is toxic.

Recently someone in my life basically said there's a lot of bad energy when I talk about work.  Not sure how to walk that line; being honest without being negative.

But the blind vendors weren't any better.  Lots of bad energy there too.  I am hard pressed to think of a job I had where I felt valued.  

That is sad.